sue123's Cancer Blog
March 16, 2008
It’s easy to become totally self absorbed when you have cancer. Your world narrows because when you have cancer, it really does seem that it’s all about ‘you’. But, it’s not. I know this, but at times (a lot) I talk-talk-talk about me-me-me, especially to Bill. I have to stop doing this as I am sure my family and friends would like to talk about other things ‘besides me’. Sooo anyway, today our son’s and our wonderful daughter in law Amanda are coming to dinner. I have managed to put together a big veggie dish that they all love. This makes me feel needed again! And, I need to feel needed, not just one that has cancer…enjoy your day, I know I will! :-)
05.04.08 - 
Thanks for your support -
Sue yes it is hard to live a normal life and not focused on the cancer but you are right sometime you just need a day off from it all…. I sure hope you had a great Sunday and enjoyed your family
Best Wishes
Cheryl58
Sue,
It is all about you, because you care so much about others and are always here for any of your friends and family. I like knowing how you are feeling and whats going on in your life. You are a very dear friend of mine and I will always be here for you. So keep talking! Continued prays your way.
Janice XOXOXO
I am not sure it is “self-absorbed” or if maybe it is more reflective. Everything takes on meaning. All the little things that were just overlooked, now become things to talk about, or think about or pray over.
I am glad to hear you are taking a “day off” from cancer. But don’t feel bad about the times you do need for it to “all be about you”.
Just a thought
Mac
i am pretty new to this (my wife has cancer) but i think it is about you you you. so many people have said this to me already, but as the primary caretaker, i keep getting reminded that i have to take care of myself so i am there to take care of my wife. as for my wife, it is about her her her. she needs all the strength and support to get through this. and when good days shine, and is lled with these two things, she gives back. i know exactly what you are speaking about your excitement cooking for your family and feeling that ‘needed’ aspect. my wife recently did my business taxes for me! she absolutely insisted on it. and then she gloated for several days thereafter ;) she too needs to feel this when she is able. i think it’s a big part about capturing the normalcy of your life.
keep on fighting!
Hi Sue, I sure do understand how you feel about needing to be needed. We all just want to get back to normal life. You have never made it seem like it was all about you! You have inspired me and other’s in faith, hope and love. You have been a shoulder to lean on, and a good friend. Now, just take care of yourself…so you can continue to take care of us. Hugs.